Q&A: I’m ready to loose my virginity.?
- 02.10.12
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Question by lorenprint: I’m ready to loose my virginity.?
Me and my wonderful boyfriend have been dating for 2 years.
Hes 21, and I’m 18. We are both virgins.
We aren’t extreme religious or anything. We both have been looking for the right person!
&I honestly think hes the one, i love him SO much!
He cares for me, and hes so gentle.
For Valentines day- he bought us tickets to go on the Caribbean cruise!
& I really want to give him something special. [[my virginity!]]
But, considerin
I don’t want to talk to him about it, b/c i want it to be a surprise, and just happen natural.
But we have talked about it before, like having sex in general, but all he says is “Wait for something special.”
I don’t know. Most people say hes a bit gay, but…hes not. At all..
Hes just a sweet caring guy.
Best answer:
Answer by Vanessa
Congratualtions!..i say go for it!
Add your own answer in the comments!

I think it is great that you waited this long. if he is not ready don’t pressure him into it. Make sure he his ready. If you don’t he might think you want it to bad. That is a turn-off and you don’t want that.
Making it a “surprise” is setting yourself up for fail. It’s great that you two have waited this long but life isn’t a movie, it doesn’t have to be “perfect” because perfect doesn’t exist and your first time is not going to be magical, trust me. It’s going to probably be awkward, short and nothingl ike you imagined.
You need to talk about it. You need to make sure he has a condom and you need to make sure he goes slow.
If he’s the one, then yea i should say go ahead. Hope its special..